How Do I Confront My Sister About This Without Seeming Like I Am Nosy?
Question by Kara: How do I confront my sister about this without seeming like I am nosy?
My sister has had some problems with drugs and alcohol recently. She has been to 2 different rehabs, which seemed to “help.” She was with this guy named Dave and he was a drug addict. After her first rehab, she was dating him, and got into drugs. She promised us that she would no longer talk to him if we helped her become clean again. So, we did and she broke up with him. She went to another rehab and she is now out. She has been away from rehab for months. She came home from work yesterday and she sounded and acted messed up, but I don’t know if she did drugs or alcohol. I didn’t talk to her about it. She went upstairs and I went on facebook, thinking it was my account, but it wasn’t. It was her’s. So I looked in her messages and I saw a conversation between her and Dave. I found out that they are dating and when she goes somewhere, she is with him, when she tells us that she is going to meetings. I am really worried about this situation. She hurt us very bad, I am only 13, and my parents are sick of the drug related issues. How do I confront her about her lying this whole time and being with a drug addict (and she probably is one herself) without being like “I looked on your facebook messages.”
Please, don’t tell me to leave her alone, because she doesn’t know what is best with her and there are other personal things she has gone through legal wise that I do not want to mention on here. She gives me attitude and I am sick of my heart being broken over and over again.
Someone please help!
Best answer:
Answer by Calum Private
If you’re going to confront her you’re going to look nosy either way, so just do it.
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