Who Is Likely to Get Complete Custody of My Child?
Question by Olay: Who is likely to get complete custody of my child?
Ok so… I am engaged to my fiance. I have a 6 month old baby girl. SHE MEANS EVERYTHING and I DEDICATE MY ENTIRE LIFE TO HER. I have a problem with my fiance’s mother…. I know that she will try to take full custody of my child, if my fiance and I ever break up. I have a huge problem with her and her energy with me…. and I know that she wants my baby girl all to herself. She has an only son….and she has admitted that she has always wanted a big family and a daughter. In fact, she told us that she thought my fiance was a GIRL the whole time she was pregnant with him. My fiance loves my baby very much, but isn’t the kind of person who would dedicate all his time with her….he would give my baby to his mother to watch, and he would go to work or have a lot of fun with his friends.
His mother and my fiance claims that she took pictures of my fiance’s scratches on his body that were caused by me…..this happened months before I was pregnant actually. My boyfriend and I then fought a lot and it got out of hand. I scratched him ‘mainly’ out of self-defense. He scratched himself up too, and cut himself with a razor and made a huge scar on his leg. She said she took pictures just in case anything happens and she can use it against me.
I once had JOKED I was going to “kill myself” to my boyfriend when we fought….again this was months before I got pregnant. He was at work, and I was at home. He called the cops on me….and the cops asked if I was okay…. They put I had “suicide” attempt on record….according to my boyfriend, although the cops didn’t tell me that.
My fiance has had addiction problems in the past. He’s known to be unfaithful and very destructive when he is drunk. He’s broken promises. Ive caught him doing cocaine….
I don’t smoke and I don’t drink….well, i drink occasionally, but I do not enjoy it. I hate the taste of alcohol. I don’t have an addictive personality.
His mom is overweight, 62 years old, a nurse, and she still smokes pot…. call me naive, but i don’t know if it is common for 60 year olds to smoke pot. She’s had 7 years of anger management&therapy when she was in her 30s. she is a charming and has a sunny disposition, but I know she can be nasty and negative, still. ive seen the way she acts with HER boyfriend. I know she relies on many herbal pills and medication (to help her moods), ive seen them in her kitchen.
fiance likes to blame me for his actions, like, saying that I’m too negative…. I’d say I am more critical and realistic, rather than just say “negative”, but yes, there are times when I would get abrasive. he however, was untrustworthy and is without a doubt untrustwrothy when is DRUNK.
I EXCLUSIVELY BREASTFEED my baby girl. I stay home with her, I don’t work, but I could work…I just want to be with my daughter. I feed my daughter at night, fiance doesn’t. I play with her. My fiance plays with her too and at times, would take her when he is home so I can do household chores without having her on my back (it’s exhausting). I get overly protective with her, fiance doesn’t…
there are many times when his mother would bring up the “scratch” situation without directly saying it. she would bring up a story that is extremely similiar to that situation as a “REMINDER” to me that she has the “POWER” to “destroy” me with those pictures she took, if anything happens. she is not direct or upfront with me about things. she would get my fiance to ask me questions that she has or have him tell me how I am with my child… like she has told him I need to move faster as being a parent and that I am too slow. she uses my fiance as her messenger to me.
fiance’s mother is good with my baby…. yes, she affectionate, playful, tries to help out (always)…in fact she tries to jump in and take over whenever she hears my baby’s name.
during the first few weeks after childbirth, she would criticise me (to fiance) by how slow I am as a parent. if you didn’t know. breastfeeding on new mothers is actually QUITE painful in the first month. nipples get very tender and sore, because youre being sucked ALL THE TIME! lol. she would find every little reasons to bring me down as a parent, to make me look bad. in reality, i was doing my best and I DID NOT DO ANYTHING WRONG. so, what if I moved a little slowly? I had post-partum hemmorage and needed to rest up for the month. I wasnt allowed to do anything but feed my daughter and rest, and be a mom.
my mom is not so involved with my child…
I am a young mother. I am 22. I exclusively breastfeed my baby and she is pretty much with me all the time. I am generally impatience about a lot of things….but my child? not at all. I have endless amount of tolerance, affection, praise, playfulness, laughs, care, respect for my child.
Thank you ‘?’ and ‘AHHHH!’ for your very helpful answers. I will definitely consider everything you have mentioned!
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