Annoying Family Members, Solution?

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Okay, so I am at my breaking point.

My aunt who is a hoarder has been “taking care of” my grandmother which she has not. My grandmother is 74, introverted she never liked to go out and she decided 5 years ago that she was going to lay down. She can’t walk anymore as a result, and she has a messed up hip. Her introverted lifestyle has come into my home. I never did anything to help my grandmother, well because I did not want to. My aunt’s house is just like the TV show, STUFF everywhere and of course she is in denial.

I am 21 years old and in college and now my dad has decided to take his mother under his wing. She lives at home with us now, we generally have a decent sized home. She sleeps in the room with a bathroom that I shower in and overall MOST of the day I smell poop and diapers. Look I am all for family, but I am tired of her being here because my aunt who does smokes periodically and drinks here and there is taking care of my aunt. I also suspect her of doing drugs as well.

What would you do? I am in school, can declare junior year. Everything going on at home has been a big distraction for me in the most part. My aunt wakes me up at 7am to “help,” and its annoying because I lose sleep over someone that does not need to be here. REHAB
I want to move out but I will be taking 18 credits in the fall to graduate as soon as possible, ugh I love them but the poop and the smell of diapers throughout the house is fatal, I think she should of took better care of herself, 74 is kind of young to start getting dementia.

Best answer:

Answer by Susan
just accept and bear then hurry ro grow up to leave that place

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