My Husband Is Paranoid as **** and Is Ruining My Life and Threatening to Leave Me?
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My husband and I have been married for 8 years no kids. We are in our late 20’s. We have been fighting for few months now and I am getting blamed for everything that is wrong in this marriage. He claims that I have not changed at all and he is done with me and gave me 3 months to change or he is considering divorcing me. I am not an alcoholic or a drug addict. He wants me to change things that I have been doing for 8 years that he has known me, and now all of a sudden he is tired and gets annoyed by it and wants me to change it according to his needs. We haven’t had sex in few months now. I always initiate it and try different things to please him, and he rejects me every time. I don’t think he is cheating. He has good values.
Few weeks ago, I gave in, and said I want to put all this behind us and start fresh and work on our marriage and reconnect. He blamed me again and said he is not going to change because he is right about everything and I am doing everything wrong in my life. I am working to get a college degree and he doesn’t have a degree. I told him many times to go back to school and do something with his life. He gives me excuses all the time about not getting an education.
He has become paranoid about certain things in life and world ending. He is really into history and world ending stuff. I try to be interested in it, and the more I take interest, he gets more paranoid. He is trying to change me and my life according to his paranoia. I have no idea what to do? He is telling me if I don’t change he is going to divorce me. I don’t want to divorce. I love him.
He is not sick or depressed. He lives a healthy life and is athletic and generally nice to people except his wife. He is just anal and wants his way and thinks only his views are right and everyone else is stupid. He treats me like a child and is inconsiderate about my feelings.
Please tell me how can I fix things? He doesn’t want to try counseling and tells me go to see a psychiatrist. I tried everything but nothing seems to work. I am worried. Its been 3 months like this and I only have 2 1/2 months left to make things better.
Best answer:
Answer by UpYours
move out
time to move on
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