Not Able to Sleep. Stress Maybe?
Question by tehgamerguy: Not able to sleep. Stress maybe?
I haven’t been able to sleep in the last few days, I believe it is stress, sadly my divorced parents are arguing again and all this stuff. Anyways, I have tried counting, that stress thing where you tense up and relax after, breathing, sleeping in total darkness, music, rain sounds, and just laying there, sometimes for hours until I realize its not helping. I can’t take that melo- whatever herb, or any drugs/alcohol. Sometimes I am tired to where I can’t sit up straight, but laying down doesn’t let me sleep. I was able to sleep fine until my parents.
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Answer by barry
Light to moderate daily exercise combats stress. For some people, it helps to visualise a quiet, relaxing scene (imagine, as vividly as you can, that you are on a tropical beach, reclining comfortably; you luxuriate, as the the sun warms you, and a gentle breeze caresses your skin lightly, inhaling the tangy, sea scented, salt laden spray from the sparkling, translucent, aqua waves, crashing on the white, coral beach sand, and feeling the hot sand slip through your fingers in one hand, sipping your favorite drink with the other; all the while, the seagulls call, swoop and cavort playfully overhead in a cloudless, azure sky: you feel just like one of them, free to soar and cartwheel, or just glide in the heavy, humid air, and that this moment will last forever). Go to: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/meditation/MM00623 & http://www.healthjourneys.com/free_audio.asp & www.meditainment.com/stress-buster & http://www.freehypnosistreatment.com/meditationtreatment.html & http://www.meditainment.com/free-meditation-content & www.healthjourneys.com which are all free. Take 4 Omega 3 fish oil supplements, daily; (certified free of mercury) it is best if consumed with an antioxidant, such as an orange, or its FRESHLY SQUEEZED juice. If vitamin E is added, it should be certified as being 100% from natural sources, or it may be synthetic: avoid it.
See: Mercola.com SEARCHBAR: “krill oil”. The supplement DHEA is thought to counter the stress hormone, Cortisol. Ginseng & Lady’s Slipper are recommended herbal remedies. Progressive Muscle Relaxation http://www.drcoxconsulting.com/managing-stress.html can be learned quickly, and takes only several minutes Also: http://www.mindtools.com/smpage.html & http://relaxationemporium.com/ & http://tinyurl.com/29so4u & at www.lessons4living.com there is an audio demonstration. At Amazon.com there are: “sounds of the ocean”, & “ambient rain sound”, & “mountain river sounds” via the searchbar. You could repeat: “I feel calm” and/or “I can handle this.”, or employ the EFT version for use in public, for which you can reasonably claim that you have a headache, as you use the acupressure massage/tapping on your temples, but it may be advisable to restrict yourself to subvocalising (saying it to yourself, in your mind, not aloud). “Even though I sometimes suffer from stress, I deeply and completely accept myself”. www.mercola.com searchbar: “EFT”, & “EFT therapists” or www.tapping.com (13 free videos) – professional is best. Practise a daily relaxation method, such as http://altmedicine.about.com/cs/mindbody/a/Meditation.htm or www.wikihow.com/Meditate or Yoga Nidra, (a series of easy mental exercises only; no flexibility required) on page L at 8m.com, below, or Tai Chi, Qi Gong, or yoga. Options: A massage (at least neck and shoulders) with jasmine, lavender, juniper, and/or bergamot, or German chamomile essential oils added to the massage oil, and to a warm bath, preferably beforehand, to help make any tension knots and muscles more pliant (others may only want, say, a sandalwood & juniper, mix; check first).
Answer by Alex
My advice is to talk to someone you trust in person. Your best option is to talk to your parents about this. If they are not willing to talk to you then you must find someone to express your feelings to in person. There is many people who have the time to talk to you, all you have to do is look. One of the best ways to get proper sleep is to make a schedule. Eat properly, don’t drink or eat less than two hours before going to bed. Regular exercise also helps soothe the mind and after a nice shower you will feel relaxed. If this isn’t enough info feel free to ask for more details.