Q&A: Ex-Wifes Sister Is “harassing” Me and Will Not Stop?

Question by Doctor Moo: Ex-Wifes sister is “harassing” me and will not stop?
My ex-wife’s sister, whom I shall refer to as “A” throughout this post, is harassing me and, despite numerous warnings, refuses to stop. I need advice because I have completely lost patience with this woman and she is driving me clinically insane!!!!

To cut the story a bit short, I broke up with my ex-wife in 2007. The “harassment” started around then. There was animosity between me and my ex when she split up, and we still remain friends to this day. Anyway, her sister constantly interferes with my life and harasses me to the point of pure frustration. I will make a list of things she has done that I can remember off the top of my head:

– When I had her as a friend on Facebook, she would add friends of mine and tell them things about me that weren’t true. She told one person that I broke up with my ex because I had affairs with THREE other women!! She told another that I had an STD from one of these women. She also told one of my friends that I was a drug dealer. None of these are true – at all.
– I have a dog, whom I rescued little over 6 months ago. I take very good care of him, make sure he is up to date at the vets, feed him the correct amount and I am currently in the process of training him. However, “A” continues to claim that I am NOT looking after my dog correctly, claims that I am abusing my dog and has also insinuated that I leave him outside for days on end without food or water. Completely un-true, and she has never even seen my dog to even know any of these things if they were true. Not only that, she has even phoned the RSPCA to tell them of this “abuse”. They came to my house, only to find a very well looked after animal.
– She has left me dozens of abusive emails. She didn’t threaten me in any of them, but they were VERY abusive and full of so much slander that I cant even begin to describe without writing a novel.
– She has phoned my mother over 5 times in one night, telling her that I have been in a car accident and have been taken to hospital. My mother was beside herself when she phoned to see if my girlfriend was in, and I answered. I have no idea how she got my mother’s number either.
– She has ordered pizza’s and takeaways and told them to come to my house, which has left me with attempting to explain the situation to numerous delivery men. I know it was her because she informed me so in another of her slanderous emails.
– Phones me late at night and If I answer, hangs up instantly. Then, as soon as the phone is down, it starts ringing again.

There is so much more I could go into detail with here, but wont. I have told my ex-wife to tell her to stop and to get a life, but she just will not listen. I am sick and tired of her and need advice as to the next course of action. Do I get a restraining order against her??
Sorry, was supposed to say that there was NO animosity between my and my wife. I must have left the “NO” out. lol

Best answer:

Answer by Roger M
change phone number
delete facebook/my space etc.
change emails

Give copies of the abusive email to the police.

File for a restraining order not to contact you or any member of your family.

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