Should I Give Up on Her?

Question by Perpetually Lonely: Should I give up on her?
I am inlove with my best friend. For the past year, I placed a lot of emotional investment on her. As a virgin in my early 40s, it is rare for me to find someone that I could find as a potential romantic prospect. When I do, something happens that never takes place in relation to romance. So when I do find someone, I try all I can do to somehow to finally achieve a romantic relationship (whereby I still fail in my quest). With this friend I am interested in, she (possibly) found somebody. In my view, she has not been upfront about it possibly out of concerns for my feelings. Our (recently) very close friendship seemed to have been distanced somewhat. I used to get a text or two and a visit for several hours almost daily from her to almost total silence from her. She did, however, call me a few days ago to see how I am doing and to wish me luck in my surgical procedure. In the middle of that phone message, she mentioned that she noticed an odd look on my face when ____ (ie.) the person I think she (might be) involved with. I didn’t answer the phone back until yesterday to tell her about my day in relation to the doctor’s visit and medical procedure. I was adviced by a close friend to just wait it out in relation to this guy she might be involved with since ____ is unemployed and does not have a car and 16 years younger than her. My feelings are hurt, but I was told that this guy is “emotional crack” and I am “emotional rehab.” Just “wait it out” is the best thing to do at the moment. But since I am miserable with my emotional investment down the drain and dreading another couple of years of lonlieness to get my heart broken again, I am thinking about giving up on her and giving on romance altogether. Do you think I should wait out until things look up? At this point, I am trying to decide. Should I just give up on her?

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Answer by Veronica C
Yes…

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