What Happens When You Are No Longer Ruled by Emotionality but Rationality Only?

Question by Tiffany: What happens when you are no longer ruled by emotionality but rationality only?
I think that this has already taken place in me, but I don’t what steps to take next. I am still young and am at a point in my life where I am deciding on a career. A part of me knows that the answer to my life questions is most probably “patience” and “to go with the flow” and “time and wisdom” and “my questions will answer themselves”. And as I am asking this question, I am wondering if it is clear and if it makes sense. At times I think I know what I want but then I doubt myself. For example, I had said that I wanted to help others who hadn’t seen life as being in their own hands for awhile; I wanted to help them see that life can be good. But I am unsure now. It must be that I realize that I am still young and very inexperience when it comes to life. However, experience, knowledge, and wisdom will come in time, and maybe by then everything will seem to fit.
There are people who go through traumatic experiences. They may have left their home and family behind at 16 to go escape over the border because of a war. And it is a very traumatic experience to that individual, and even though they may have cope and dealt with it in time, there is still that inner demon, which is alcoholism. I personally know someone with that experience, and I really do want to help them.
I have had a very blessed life and in turn, I feel that I should do something for others. The reality is that you cannot always help others. Sometimes it takes a power greater than yourself. Lol I’m just rambling on and am not even sure what exactly I am asking. Okay, how do I help this individual? What paths do I take? What is the next step? Do I need some emotionality to experience life? I constantly want to find out more about life. What should I do about that?

Best answer:

Answer by Dude
You need to understand that whatever path you choose, you will be able to help some and not others. Some will reject your help, some will take your help and abuse it, some will love your assistance. People are all different, and your intensity of your goal doesn’t change that.

I would suggest you volunteer at one or more places to see if it really gives you meaning or joy.

All meaning is subjective, there is no one answer that works for all people, it’s what matters to you.

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